Friday, August 29, 2014

Weeks 25-29

Hello, third trimester!

29 weeks!
Artoo

Seriously, I can't believe how fast this is going.  It's so much different than it was with Gabby.  I can't believe in 3 months or so we'll be a family of 4!

My hip pain is getting out of control.  If I'm just walking by myself (slowly), everything is fine.  However, if I try to carry or even lift Gabby, I pay for it big time.  She's such a momma's girl still, and I miss being able to "carry you" whenever she wants me to!  Other than that and a rapidly expanding middle, things are going smoothly.  He is super low, and very consistently kicks me in the bladder and pelvic area (probably not helping the hip pain).  I swear his head must be locked and loaded sometimes because I feel like I can't cross my legs very well anymore.  He is still very wiggly and loves to move around.  I've started feeling some rolls in there too, and sometimes my belly is very lop-sided, so I know he's snuggled up on one side.  He always moves if I poke him, though!

I'm up 20 lbs this time around, which is still right on track.  My OB didn't make any weight comments at my last appointment, so she's happy with how things are going.  I was up 14 lbs with Gabby, so a bit more gain now.  After my problems with breastfeeding Gabby, I'm not too concerned about any weight that I'm gaining.  Frankly, the more the merrier.  I passed my glucose tolerance test (no gestational diabetes) and have no sign of pre-eclampsia (no protein in urine and low blood pressure), so we'll just keep on keeping on here!

Brian painted Artoo's room, and it looks really good.  That means he is officially done with painting walls in kids rooms!  We chose a really light green, and are hoping to get some baby animal decals to punch things up.  We found some that we really like at Buy Buy Baby, but they are discontinued and we can't get the full set of things we need.  Back to the drawing board!  He is going to paint the doors this weekend, and then he should be officially done with painting.  I know he'll be happy to move on to something else!

Gabby

The kid loves her watering cans.


The park's sprinklers were on a bit too long one day, and Gabby had a blast in the puddles.



Gabby's sleep has gradually started to improve.  We went on a trip to St. Louis (more below) to visit with my family, and she kept up the early morning wake-ups there.  So we decided to get serious about sleep training when we got back.  We bought her a toddler clock that has a moon on it when she should be sleeping and a sun when she can be awake.  I've been working with her for the past few weeks to get her to realize that she needs to be quiet when the moon is up and can call for me when the sun is up.  She's had a few bad nights of multiple wake-ups (all of which happen if Brian picks her up from daycare, so it's most definitely separation anxiety), but overall, she's been doing a really good job going to sleep and staying asleep.  I like that she's listening to reason--I tell her when/if I go in in the middle of the night that when the moon is up, everyone sleeps in their own beds.  Once I say that, she stops crying, thinks about it, and then lies back down and asks to be covered.  When we break the middle of the night wake-ups for good, I'm going to work on getting her to go to sleep at night by herself.  She still requires rocking to go down initially, and it's still taking over an hour for her to really fall asleep.

In other news, we've started potty training!  Right before we left for St. Louis, she asked to go on the potty a few times, and then actually did it!  We bought a training potty in St. Louis, and she peed and pooped several times while we were there.  Since we got back, she's been really good about telling us when she has to go and then actually going.  Daycare says that she's able to stay dry all day (except for during naptime, which is normal), and requested that we get her some underwear.  I'm not quite ready for underwear at home, since she won't tell us when she has to go potty if she's playing or interested in something else, but we did buy some pull-ups and she is now wearing those full time.  All of this is happening just as I had myself convinced that I'd have 2 in full time diapers.  I definitely wouldn't call her trained, but she's well on her way to it!

Now for some pictures.  Unfortunately, we don't have any family shots, since Brian only took his camera to the zoo.  But here are some amazing pictures of our day with my college friends Stephanie and Lisa, Lisa's husband Derek, and their daughter Lia!

Bonus Sacramento airport shot
Her friend the sea lion

"Mommy lion"
"Daddy lion.  No baby lion."

Posing while the leopards are snoozing


The zebra is not dead.  I promise.

Looking at the zebras too.

Waiting to get in to see the sea lions.

Watching the sea lions swim overhead.

The biggest his of the day by far was the misters.

See?

Both girls loved running around in them.

They had so much fun together.

Just hanging out in the children's zoo.

She actually climbed pretty high.  She also fell.

In the hippo.

Riding the carousel.

Me too!

Lia captures Gabby's serious face.

Not as well as Gabby does, though.

Lia on the train.  Gabby loved being on a real train.  The train at the Sacramento zoo is lame.

And if you were wondering, yes, we were there for the riots.  My Grandma Stoehr lives in Ferguson and we were all over at her house the day the teenager got shot.  Amy and Ryan had to change their route because the street was closed.  So this brings our track record on travel to 2 fires and a riot.

Fall classes started this past week, and I'm happy to be back.  On Monday I went 5 straight hours (they had to check into lab lockers and complete a lab because of Labor Day), and I was in so much pain.  Wednesday was better, since I was only on my feet for about 3.5 hours.  It's going to be interesting teaching this class, since I'm definitely not in my normal shape right now.  I've already told them that if they have questions during lab, they're going to have to find me, since I can't walk very much anymore!  I start my online class on September 9, so I have another week to settle in at ARC before having to worry about that one.

Thursday, July 31, 2014

Weeks 22-24

24 weeks, 4 days, or a little less than 6 months along!
This pregnancy is going by so quickly!  I can't believe we've reached viability day--the day that a medical team will try to save a preemie rather than just marking it as stillborn.  Not that it's going to be a problem with Artoo coming early; he seems very happy in there, kicking my bladder!  As I said last time, he's a mover and shaker.  Most of his movement is very low still.  He gets some good shots to my bladder, but it also sometimes feels like he's hitting my intestines!  He's been doing some rolling and turning as well, which makes things very tight and uncomfortable.  I'm not sure Gabby has actually felt him in a while (she's just not patient enough to sit with her hand in one place and wait for him), but when I tell her he's moving she'll say "baby brother is dancing."  She also hits and shakes my belly and say "wake up, baby brother!" when she wants to feel him.  I'm hoping this isn't indicative of what she's going to do during his naptimes!

At my last appointment, I was up 14 lbs, which is more than the 11 lbs I was with Gabby around this time.  Despite that, my OB looked at me and said "you know you can eat, right."  I assured her that I'm eating a ton, but I have tried to increase consumption since then.  This little guy still loves meat and fat, so I'm doing my best to oblige!  I'm not doing nearly as well this time around with exercise (unless chasing Gabby and walking around lab counts as exercise), since not only have I been really busy with work, I caught a cold that is just lingering.  I'm finally starting to feel better, after almost a week and a half of being sick.  Looking back, this is the time I caught my first pregnancy cold with Gabby too!  It's weird how similar things are between these pregnancies, and also how different!

Gabby is doing a bit better with sleeping.  It still takes forever to get her to go to sleep (although she'll pretty consistently fall asleep at 9:30; scant comfort when bedtime is at 8:15!), and someone has to be in the room with her while she's getting there.  But she only woke up 1 time the night before last, and slept all the way through last night!  I'm hoping that's a trend and not a fluke--sleeping through the night again was amazing!  She had no problems at all transitioning to her big girl bed.  She is absolutely in love with her new room, and now calls her old one "baby brother's room."

Here's her room with some of her furniture.  We now have curtains, and will soon put up wall decorations.  We also put up a railing on her bed so she doesn't fall out.  It mostly just serves to keep her millions of toys in bed.
I'm so relieved that so far she seems OK with giving up her old room for her new one.  I think it helps that we let her have a huge say in decorating.  Because you know I didn't want a pink room!  The next step is to paint Artoo's room a nice pale green.  I'm not sure when Brian plans on getting that started, but time is getting short!

We've had some good times this past month.  We went to the California State Fair with the Berrys and the Frasers, and had a fantastic time together.


Between this shot and the one above, I have no idea where my baby went, and who left this little girl in her place!

4 of the girls.  Do you know how hard it is to get 4 girls 5 and under to all look the same direction??

Cheesing with Mommy

Girl #5 enjoying her sippy cup in the stroller.  She wanted to join in!
 Gabby got to go on her very first pony ride.  She gave it 2 thumbs way up!

Excited because she got the white horse!

She actually gave the horse a pet!  I was surprised.

And we're off!
Despite her serious face, she was in love, and said "again?" when we were done!

She's cute, even from behind!
 The 4 bigger girls got to go on some rides together too!

Riding the boat.

Phoebe never once stopped ringing the bell.

Gabby and Phoebe riding the kangaroo.

Finally Daddy and Gabby on the Jumbo ride (think Dumbo at Disney).  All rides said no pregnant women!
We also went camping last weekend at Yosemite.  We try to get up there every 2 years or so, since it's fairly close and really fun.  Joining us were half of the Berrys, half of the Frasers, the Frickey-Lins, and the Bischoff-Schuylers (plus a friend of theirs).  The weekend started out great.

Brian's sole reason for planning the trip this weekend was the new moon, so he could play with his lenses and get some star pictures.  He succeeded.

A perfectly clear night would have been much better!
Those of us with kids went on a simple hike--2.5 miles round trip with a 500 vertical ft elevation change.  We were starting at altitude, though (I think somewhere around 8000 ft), so it was more challenging than it would have been at sea level!

We all started out together...
But moving at toddler/pregnant woman speed meant that the Berrys and Frasers left us in the dust!

Gabby actually walked about 25% of the way, even making it up some of the rocky terrain on her own.  Brian and I were very impressed!


Some food motivation was necessary, of course!

We were headed for the foot of that mountain.

Gabby got appropriately filthy.

Taking on that rock!  She always tried to find the hardest route, because it's the most fun!

Finally making it to the lake!

It was worth the hike!

Eating lunch with the rest of the group

The Frickey-Lins made it too!

Ellie hiked in style.

Lunchtime!

You can see me in the back trying to hoist myself up.  I made it on my own!

Checking out the scenery
After our hike, we went back to the campsite and hung out for the rest of the afternoon.  Brian took a nap (Gabby and I took one in the car--Gabby actually zonked out on the way back down in Brian's arms), while the other adults kept an eye on the kids.

Now the not-so-fun part.  While we were driving to the hike, we noticed some controlled burns to clear out the brush.  No big deal, and actually quite common in Yosemite this time of year (particularly with the drought).  So at first, when we saw the dark clouds heading towards our camp, we thought that's what it was.  Turns out, it was from an actual fire that had started about 3.5 miles from our campsite!  Information was really spotty because the phone lines were down.  At first, we were told that we had to pack up and leave right away (being in the path of the smoke means you're also in the path of the fire, after all).  So everyone stopped dinner prep, and started packing up their campsites as fast as they could.  I did my best to entertain the girls while everyone was busy, and mostly just stayed out of the way.  As we were leaving, we found out that it wasn't a mandatory evacuation ("yet" was the implied word), but we were encouraged to leave.  Even if we had known that at first, our group had 4 children age 5 and under, plus Artoo--we were definitely leaving when the ash started to fall!  To compound matters, our childless friends had gone on a long hike and weren't back yet.  So we ended up packing up their things and taking them with us, just in case they were unable to get back to the campsite.

It was a bright and sunny day.  This was taken around 5:30.

That's a helicopter with fire retardant or water underneath.

And heading back to refill.

In the blue sky area, the sun was shining brilliantly.  All of that "cloud cover" is smoke and ash.

It was very surreal being under the smoke cloud with the ash drifting down like snow.
We managed to get out of there around 7:00, and headed to a nearby town for dinner.  We were able to meet up with our friends and give them their stuff back, and then we all started the long journey home.  It's about a 3 hour trip from Yosemite to Sacramento, so we made it back around 11:30, took showers (wipey bath for Gabby), and crashed.  Gabby was an angel.  She had some listening issues at the camp while we were packing up (she loved digging in the dirt, but I didn't want her to get too dirty right before we left), but she loved dinner, and almost immediately fell asleep in the car on the way home.  So the ending to our camping trip was not as fun as the beginning.  And if you're thinking this sounds a bit familiar, it's pretty much the same thing that happened to us while we were in Flagstaff--we were there 1 night, then a fire broke out 20 miles away, and we cut our vacation short to get away from the smoke and ash!  Brian and I have come to terms with the fact that we may have fire powers.

Lastly, my summer class ended yesterday, and I couldn't be happier to be done.  I had a great teaching partner doing the lecture portion of the class, and I really enjoyed the semester as a whole, but it's so nice to know that I don't have to work until 9:20 three nights a week anymore!  We have a trip to St. Louis planned (hopefully nothing catches on fire, although LA was fine while we were there), and then my fall class starts on August 25.  I'm also going to start a University of Phoenix class on September 9.  It'll be a busy fall, but it should occupy me nicely while I wait for Artoo to come.  In the meantime, I intend to enjoy my time off as much as possible this month :)